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Welcome to the Trans Masc Sexual Pleasure Group Coaching Program!

Are you ready to have better sex? 

Sex is about more than dysphoria. Sex is about more than genitals. I want to help you figure out what that "more" is for you. This group is part sex ed and part connecting and learning from each other. You'll leave knowing more about yourself, what you want, and how to get it.   

This 6 week group coaching program includes trans-specific sexuality education, activities to understand yourself better, and the opporutnity to connect and learn from other guys who are struggling with the same things. 


  • Week 1 - Welcome​​

    • Topics: Trust, Connection, Joy​

  • Week 2 - Bodies

    • Topics: Body Image, Anatomy, Body Feels, Language​

  • Week 3 - What is Good Sex?

    • Topics: Pleasure, Exploration

  • Week 4 - Shadow Side

    • Topics: Cissexism, Dysphoria, Safety ​

  • Week 5 - Tell Me More

    • Topics: Desire, Fantasy, Orgasm​

  • Week 6 - Wanting More

    • Topics: HRT, Surgery, Prosthetics, Toys​

This group is designed by a trans man for trans-masculine adults who want to deepen their relationship with their sexuality.

  • For folks newer to transition and folks with more years under their belts.

  • For trans masc people of all sexual orientations and sexual interests. 

  • For people over age 18. 

  • For both binary and non-binary trans-masculine people. 

  • For guys in relationships and guys who are single.

  • For guys post surgery, pre surgery, and those not intersted in surgery.

This group is not a sex therapy group or a trauma processing group. If either of those are things you're looking for please let me know and I'll connect you to other providers. 

Still not sure if this group is for you? Send me an email and let's talk about it!​

“This group was an incredible way to connect with other guys about my sexuality as a trans man. I learned a lot about myself while thinking through Damon's prompts, and it was so validating to hear that others were working through the same questions about how they felt about their bodies and sexuality. I wish I had been able to have these conversations (with myself and other people) even sooner, and I am so grateful that everyone in the group was so open about themselves and curious about other people's experiences. "



Hello! I am a white queer trans man, sex coach, and sexuality educator. I've been working in the field of trans health for 20 years. Which makes me sound much older than I feel! I got my start as a sexuality educator for Planned Parenthood in my early 20's. My favorite part of that job were the sex toy workshops I provided to college dorms.

That was right around the time that I was identifying as a dyke, and then as genderqueer. I physically transitioned in 2005 and somewhere along the line my gender felt more binary. I now identify as a queer trans man and use he and him pronouns.

I've continued to work in the field of trans health and sexuality including teaching Human Sexuality at Philadelphia Community College, Sex Therapy at Widener Unveristy, and presenting about trans sexuality at many conferences. I've had my own journey with my sexuality, my gender, and my body which inform my work. And the years I've put in as a sex nerd have also helped. Most recently I work as a psychotherapist and sex therapist working with mostly queer and trans clients and teach other therapists about talking to trans folks about gender, sex, and sexuality.


As a white person it is my responsiblity to challenge and end white supremacy. I am actively engaged in anti-racist learning and strive to create spaces that feel as safe as possible for BIPOC participants. 


Join the Waitlist

The next version of this group will be offered in the Fall. Join the waitlist to be the first to know!

Group Guidelines
  • This group is a coaching group, not a therapy group. 

  • Groups take place via Zoom on Tuesdays 5-6 pm EST. 

  • You always have the right to pass. Consent is a priority.

  • Information shared in this group is private. Groups will not be recorded.

  • In this group everyone's identity and experience will be respected.

  • If you decide not to go ahead with the group before the start date you will get a full refund. If the group has started and you decide you don't want to continue there will be a 50% refund. 

  • Partipants are asked to attend all six groups. If you miss a group I can provide you with handouts and activities, but not a recording.

I'm looking forward to connecting with you!


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