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Welcome to the Trans Masc Sexual Pleasure Group Coaching Program!

Are you ready to have better sex? 

Sex is about more than dysphoria. Sex is about more than genitals. I want to help you figure out what that "more" is for you. This group is part sex ed and part connecting and learning from each other. You'll leave knowing more about yourself, what you want, and how to get it.   

Join this updated 8 week group coaching program! It includes trans-specific sexuality education, activities to understand yourself better, and the opporutnity to connect and learn from other guys who are struggling with the same things. Based on feedback from past groups this program is two weeks longer, the curriculum includes more small group connection, and there are more no-fee slots avaialbe for BIPOC participants.

Outline:

  • Week 1 - Welcome​​

    • Trust, Connection, Joy​

  • Week 2 - Imagining Ourselves

    • Sexual Pleasure Lineages, Feeling Desired

  • Week 3 - What is Good Sex?

    • Pleasure, Exploration

  • Week 4 - Bodies​​​

    • Anatomy, Body image

  • Week 5 - Relationships

    • Attraction, Community, Disclsure

  • Week 6 - Shadow Side

    • Cissexism, Dysphoria, Safety ​

  • Week 5 - Tell Me More

    • Desire, Fantasy, Orgasm​

  • Week 6 - Wanting More

    • HRT, Surgery, Prosthetics, Toys​

This group is designed by a trans man for trans-masculine adults who want to deepen their relationship with their sexuality.

  • For folks newer to transition and folks with more years under their belts.

  • For trans masc people of all sexual orientations and sexual interests. 

  • For people over age 18. 

  • For both binary and non-binary trans-masculine people. 

  • For guys in relationships and guys who are single.

  • For guys post surgery, pre surgery, and those not intersted in surgery.

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This group is not a sex therapy group or a trauma processing group. If either of those are things you're looking for please let me know and I'll connect you to other providers. 

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Still not sure if this group is for you? Send me an email and let's talk about it!​

“This group was an incredible way to connect with other guys about my sexuality as a trans man. I learned a lot about myself while thinking through Damon's prompts, and it was so validating to hear that others were working through the same questions about how they felt about their bodies and sexuality. I wish I had been able to have these conversations (with myself and other people) even sooner, and I am so grateful that everyone in the group was so open about themselves and curious about other people's experiences. "

Samuel

  • When is it?
    Start 2024 off strong and join me for the first Trans Masc Sexual Pleasure Group of the year! The group will be meeting on Tuesdays for one hour at 5 pm EST. Thanks to the feedback from past groups, this group will run for 8 weeks! Dates: 1/9/24, 1/16/24, 1/23/24, 1/30/24, 2/6/24, 2/13/24, 2/20/24, 2/27/24
  • How much does it cost?
    Fee 1: No-fee/Pay what you can (for BIPOC participants) Fee 2: 400 (Reduced Fee) Fee 3: 600 (Full Fee ) Fee 4: 800 (Full Fee + 200 to support access for folks with lower income) Fee 5: 1000 (Full Fee + 400 to support access for folks with lower income) The fee is set up as a scale in order to create more access for folks with different levels of income. There are two no-fee slots for BIPOC participants. Additional BIPOC particpants will be offer pay-what-you-can. Guideline to Help Determine your Fee If you live with very little wiggle room financially, choose the lower end of the scale. If you are doing well enough to regularly eat out, buy new clothes, have no trouble paying your bills or buying groceries, choose the middle to upper end of the scale. If you enjoy the benefits listed above plus vacations/travel, have investments, assets and/or significant savings, supplemental generational wealth, or if paid work is an option not a necessity, choose the top of the scale.
  • What if I can't attend a live call?
    If you are unable to attend a group I can provide you with the activities that we particpated in that day. I am unable to record calls in order to protect the privacy or everyone in the group.
  • What is the refund policy?
    You payment will be refunded in full before the first group if you chose not to particpate. If you chose to not continue after the course has started you will refunded 50%.
  • Is this group therapy?
    No, this program is not group therapy. It is part class and part coaching group. There will an opporunity to interact with each other and as a whole group.
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​Hello! I am a white queer trans man, sex coach, and sexuality educator. I've been working in the field of trans health for 20 years. Which makes me sound much older than I feel! I got my start as a sexuality educator for Planned Parenthood in my early 20's. My favorite part of that job were the sex toy workshops I provided to college dorms.

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That was right around the time that I was identifying as a dyke, and then as genderqueer. I physically transitioned in 2005 and somewhere along the line my gender felt more binary. I now identify as a queer trans man and use he and him pronouns.

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I've continued to work in the field of trans health and sexuality including teaching Human Sexuality at Philadelphia Community College, Sex Therapy at Widener Unveristy, and presenting about trans sexuality at many conferences. I've had my own journey with my sexuality, my gender, and my body which inform my work. And the years I've put in as a sex nerd have also helped. Most recently I work as a psychotherapist and sex therapist working with mostly queer and trans clients and teach other therapists about talking to trans folks about gender, sex, and sexuality.

 

As a white person it is my responsiblity to challenge and end white supremacy. I am actively engaged in anti-racist learning and strive to create spaces that feel as safe as possible for BIPOC participants. 

 

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Join the Waitlist

The next version of this group will be offered in January. Join the waitlist to access early registration!

Group Guidelines

  • This group is a coaching group, not a therapy group. 

  • Groups take place via Zoom on Tuesdays 5-6 pm EST. 

  • You always have the right to pass. Consent is a priority.

  • Information shared in this group is private. Groups will not be recorded.

  • In this group everyone's identity and experience will be respected.

  • If you decide not to go ahead with the group before the start date you will get a full refund. If the group has started and you decide you don't want to continue there will be a 50% refund. 

  • Partipants are asked to attend all six groups. If you miss a group I can provide you with handouts and activities, but not a recording.

The fee is set up as a scale in order to create more access for folks with different levels of income. There are two no-fee slots for BIPOC participants. Additional BIPOC particpants will be offered pay-what-you-can slots based on availability.

Guideline to Help Determine your Fee

  • If you live with very little wiggle room financially, choose the lower end of the scale.

  • If you are doing well enough to regularly eat out, buy new clothes, have no trouble paying your bills or buying groceries, choose the middle to upper end of the scale.

  • If you enjoy the benefits listed above plus vacations/travel, have investments, assets and/or significant savings, supplemental generational wealth, or if paid work is an option not a necessity, choose the top of the scale.

I'm looking forward to connecting with you!

TRANS PLEASURE IS AN ACT OF RESISTANCE

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